Monday, April 13, 2009

How do men feel about receiving flowers from women?

My husband%26#039;s 30th birthday is on Valentine%26#039;s Day and I was thinking about finding out where he would be throughout the day and have him collect 30 roses from his stops along the way. He owns his business but I%26#039;m not sure how he would feel about getting flowers. We%26#039;ve been married for 10 years and I am pretty ashamed that I don%26#039;t know how he feels about it. I have bought him flowers before but it was when he returned home from visiting his dying grandmother out of state. Any advise or ideas would be really helpful!!!


Thanks so much.

How do men feel about receiving flowers from women?
Most Guys don%26#039;t like getting flowers as a gift.


It is too degrading.


Get him a leather Jacket.
Reply:if i sent my husband flowers at work he would kill me i think, give him thirty pairs of panties and tell him to collect the reward one by one, any time he likes,
Reply:I%26#039;ve recieved flowers before and just don%26#039;t excited about them AT A L L. That%26#039;s just the way we%26#039;re wired. The thought is apprciated, but an alternitive would be a better gift.





I would rather my wife spend the money on a nice dinner or intimate appearal with a hot date invitation in a card.
Reply:I don%26#039;t know about other men, but I find it embarrassing. I don%26#039;t know why, but I just feel that way.
Reply:hrm yeah unless hes like into flowers like he%26#039;s into landscaping or he%26#039;s a horticulturist.. then sure he%26#039;d like the flowers..





why not make him some cookies and some cupcakes and send them to his work... :)
Reply:some like it but most don%26#039;t. i sent my man flowers for out first anniversary and he said they were nice but i could tell that he could really care less for them. turns out it was just a waste of money and i won%26#039;t do it again.
Reply:my husband likes anything that I get him, flowers may seem like the last minute thing but I always liked them, guys are always going to hard to shop for, but your idea sounds really cute and I think that he would have a smile every time he got a rose at one of the stops, I think I would do that one day.
Reply:someone has ask that ?..before and i even considered maybe i should send my man flowers to..its is a sweet idea..but what i gather from men..is that some like it and some dont..like someone said if your man is comfortable in his skin..he will like it..but also i think that its not really a big deal for them like it is for us..we are like OMG..honey i love it and thats all we need..but with a man he will be like thanks babe..and thats it..you know what i mean...if you are going to send flowers..also include maybe tickets to his favoite team..keys to a hotel room that you booked..something to go with the flowers..understand..i just might take my own advice.......i swear this vday is soo hard for me to..i dont know what to do..i would like to do something different..you know..something..least unexpected...something to blow his mind away....he is romantic and i am romantic..so this is hard..ahhhh...i guess i%26#039;ll figure it out.....but goood luck to you..


ps..after vday..post to us how it went..i will try to remember your name..so i can check
Reply:That%26#039;s a very sweet idea but I think it really depends on several factors. One, does he like flowers? And two (and in my opinion, the most important), will it be an inconvenience to him? It may be a romantic idea, but if it inconveniences him, it will be remembered as a bad idea that was cute, but a pain (at best), and an inconsiderate, poorly thought-out idea (or worse). You%26#039;ve been married 10 years, and if you aren%26#039;t sure how this would go over, I%26#039;d leave experimentation for something that has no effect on his job.





A man%26#039;s job is usually his No. 1 or nearly top priority. He may resent you imposing your will on that space, even if the gesture is %26quot;nice.%26quot;
Reply:If he loves you the way you obviously love him he would love any gift you get him. I think its a good idea but it would be even better if those flowers lead to something else like a dinner you have prepared or the tub filled with hot water. Be creative and don%26#039;t let anything discourage you. All the man wants is to know is that you love him.
Reply:Let me tell you honestly what I would think about it...I%26#039;d know you meant well but I%26#039;d prefer you to cook me something nice. I%26#039;m not a lady. This is just one man%26#039;s opinion though.
Reply:Not crazy about it. Call me old fashioned, but I prefer to be the sender not the sendee.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think flowers mean as much for a man.


I%26#039;d go with a plant for his office or something else like a nice desk set.


I received a desk set (Blotter etc..) and enjoyed it very much.


You could also include a picture of you and him in a nice frame.





That would be the way I%26#039;d go
Reply:I%26#039;d rather have a blow_job. Flowers are for women.
Reply:If he is not one of those %26quot;IM TOO MANLY FOR THIS OR THAT%26quot;, and he is secure about himself, then he would love them. Its the thought that will make him happy.
Reply:I think most men would be touched by it but at the same time be a little embarrassed if they received them at work or some other public place. Would your husband feel this way?
Reply:Flowers are for women. In my opinion, I think it would be somewhat emasculating for a man to receive flowers, especially collecting them throughout the day in front of his staff.
Reply:Guys aren%26#039;t into flowers. It goes like this: he gives you something on v-day, and he gets laid.
Reply:i actually answered this question as part of another answer i gave last week. giving flowers to a guy is like feeding caviar to a hog. he%26#039;ll just use them to scratch himself. candy is good, though. sounds like he drives a lot. maybe he%26#039;d like something to make that more enjoyable, like an ipod or a gift certificate for his favorite restaurant. he%26#039;s 30 so food has probably become more enjoyable to him recently. he may not even be aware of it. a day off, a massage, a couple of beers and your affection would probably make his day.
Reply:If he had a choice, I would say not so much. He would be much more receptive if you went downstairs and gave him an oral exam.
Reply:Just make sure they are all YELLOW ROSES. Great Idea. He is so LUCKY to have a wife like YOU. GO for it.
Reply:If I ever got flowers from a girl, or even my current girlfriend who im deeply in love with, I would dump her right away. Surprise him, do something unexpected. When he comes home from work, does he usually hang his coat in a closet?


If so, hide in there, not wearing anything. Maybe buy him a motorcycle? those are badass. Besides, from what I%26#039;ve heard, sex is always good.
Reply:I%26#039;m not a homo. Keep the flowers, take off the panties.




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