My boyfriend didn't acknowledge my birthday or any other special occassion, am I wrong to be upset?

I%26#039;ve been with my boyfriend for over almost two years now. I just had a birthday last weekend, and even though he knew it, not only did he waited about half a day to call me, but he NEVER even said %26quot;Happy Birthday%26quot; to me.


Last year, I had to ask him to say Happy Birthday to me. I don%26#039;t mean to be a big baby, but am I being unreasonable to want to hear him say that to me when he is able to send flowers to other girls half way across the planet when he tried to court them?


I waited for several days to see if he knew why I was upset, but when I confronted him, he said he was clueless. So, I told him that I felt that he took me for granted. I really didn%26#039;t want anything from him. Even a texted messaged that day would have been fine. He in return asked if I was happy with him and that if it was really his job to do anything on that day for me? I just think it%26#039;s natural to want to be treated special from the person that claims that he loves you during special occassions.

My boyfriend didn%26#039;t acknowledge my birthday or any other special occassion, am I wrong to be upset?
yes you can be frustrated but don%26#039;t hissy fit
Reply:Wow, he is a loser!!! He puts all the effort out to send flowers to girls halfway around the planet who he was trying to court...and he cant bring you flowers on your birthday? Good God girl dump him. He is no good. I cant believe you are still with him...I hate to think about Christmas and Valentines Day with this creep.......
Reply:believe it or not, there are some guys who just don%26#039;t know how to treat a girl...especially if they have not been taught.





You either need to %26quot;teach%26quot; him how to treat you, accept the way he is, or move on. If he%26#039;s like this now, it won%26#039;t get any better should you ever marry him. He should be doing whatever to try to impress you....and he%26#039;s not being impressive.
Reply:He sounds like a douche. I can%26#039;t believe you%26#039;re still with him.





That is NOT typical. Two years and not so much as a %26quot;Happy Birthday Baby%26quot;? That%26#039;s not going to get better either.
Reply:That is typical guy behavior. They have to practice that stuff sometimes. Yes you have a right to be upset.
Reply:Deffinately. I dont know why your with him, but i understand its hard to break up aswellll
Reply:you have every right to be mad at him
Reply:you have every right to feel hurt and upset. if you two are going to be in a serious relationship you should both acknowledge the impirtant things in each other%26#039;s lives (i.e. a birthday) as long as you are able to tell him how you are feeling there may be a way to right the wrong in the situation. be honest with him and if he can%26#039;t do the right thing and think pf your feelings then move on to someone that will!! RESPECT and TRUST are big problems in most relationships. IF he can respect your wishes on your special day then he needs to be kicked aside and you should try to move on to bigger and better things.



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